Hello. I sincerely hope you are doing well.
The three letter word Are you okay is one we rarely use. I don’t know the number of times someone has asked you today whether you are okay or even, the number of times you have checked on someone today.
Am writing this story after reading such an emotional story. The story talks of two friends and is being narrated by one of them . This friend says, he noticed his friend stop smiling, the friend stopped attending fellowship ,he noticed his friend stop being online, he started hearing rumours about the friend and at a point he joined in spreading the rumours . After a while, the lost friend called him but he didn’t pick. The friend texted but he never replied to any of the messages.
After a long time, he received news that the friend had passed away. At the funeral, this guy wasn’t just weeping since he had lost a friend, he was weeping because he had failed the friend. He remembered the number of times the friend had tried reaching out but he ignored . The lost friend was always suffering and feeling alone but the one person he considered a friend chose to ignore him and make baseless assumptions towards him .
Have been thinking about the number of times we have been such friends. The number of times we have chosen to ignore the plights of those close to us. We’ve justified such behavior with words like she’ll be back soon, why should I reach out. At times a friend in need has called us and we ignore saying we’re busy at the moment so we’ll call back later and we never reach out.
Look back and see the friends you have pushed away, ignored or taken for granted. Call up that old friend, care for the one who has gone silent. People are going through so many issues behind those fake smiles and glossy social media posts; And all they need is a true friend.Be a true friend, be a true brother, be a true sister.
And now, I would like to ask you who is reading this,Are you okay?
Feel free to leave your comments in the comment section.
With love ♥️ ♥️.
We will be okay👌
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By grace through faith🙏
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A simple… Uko aje? Can do wonders
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Indeed. Are you okay today?
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Yess, thanks for asking😌 what about you?
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Am good
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Am carried by the story 😩
Am okay, thanks.
Are you okay 😉
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Am okay,thanks for asking😊.
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Welcome.
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This is a thought provoking post. I need to do better. Thanks for sharing!!
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Thank you for reading
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It’s important to regularly check on our friends indeed. Nice post!
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Thank you for relating. I hope you are doing well today.
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I am, thank you 😊
Hope you’re well too.
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Am good
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Are you okay, usually I see that as too complicated for me to answer and it might take me a lot of time. But am okay .
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Thank you
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This is so deep and a great lesson for all of us.
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Thank you for reading it.
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👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️🌈
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😊😊♥️♥️
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Thank you for sharing and its a post all of us needs to read! Sending a text to someone asking if they are ok only takes up a minute of your time, but can really help someone else! Its sad how we get so consumed in our busy life that we forget to make small gestures like these.
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That one sms can save a soul. Thank you for reading this, it means a lot to me
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I’ve felt this😩
Am fine thank you and you?
Additionally, some friends ask you “how you are doing” out of formality…I feel like the how are you’s are rhetorical
Bcoz most friends don’t care how you are, they wanna know how well enough you’re doing well so they can continue their days without inconvenience yet some people just need to know they are heard
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Am doing well. I realise most people just ask it for formality as you said. For the friends we are, let’s learn to care just a little bit more. It goes a long way. Thank you for reading this.
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